Wednesday, April 30, 2014

read: The Orphan Master's Son

I hardly know where to begin in describing this book. I can begin by telling you what Chris said when he finished the book: "I think that was the best book I've read in my life". This book is so beautifully written. I could hardly put it down. It kept me up nights.

The Orphan Master's Son, by Adam Johnson takes place in North Korea, roughly present-day. We follow the life of Jun Do, the son of an orphan master. The reader is completely enveloped in the harshness, random violence, fear and helpless nature of the life of the average North Korean citizen. The utter lack of control Jun Do has over the direction of his life is unnerving. I went from disliking his character - he was simply not a likable guy - to finding in him humanity. But it was a slow discovery, both for the character and for the reader.

This book had me at its beck and call night and day until I finished it. It was painful at times what happened to the characters. Beyond any individual character's fate, though, the fate of an entire people are what you are left considering when you finally put the book down. I hope you will pick up a copy and settle in for a read.

Monday, April 28, 2014

Healing Time


We've had an interesting year so far. It started out by getting stuck in Massachusetts in January. Not that I don't love having more time with my family. But we had timed our return so that we'd be home for the start of school. The snow made it impossible to go anywhere for a number of days and we got home a few days later than we had planned. Everyone (but me) was sick upon our return, though. By early February we had to get antibiotics for two sinus infections that just wouldn't go away. This started an interesting cycle for Coleman. He got sicker. And sicker.

I knew, at least suspected I knew what was happening to him because I'd gone through it myself a few months before. Finding a pediatric doctor who could actually help, that was a challenge. Five weeks after Coleman's appointment we got the news we were anticipating, with even more information than we expected. In addition, we got what we thought was a really good, carefully thought out treatment plan.

Coleman has been diagnosed with chronic Lyme disease, with a co-infection of Bartonella. There are a number of other complicating factors with his genetic makeup that make him susceptible to mold and viruses. To further complicate matters, it is difficult for his body to rid itself of toxins - I don't know if this is simply how he is or if this is temporary. This component in particular was likely what made him so very sick after being treated for a sinus infection. The skeptics among you will ask, how did he get it? Did he ever get a tick bite? A rash? I don't believe it. My answer is: I don't know if he had a tick bite. I never saw a bulls eye rash. But I know I had it while I was pregnant. I know I had it the entire time I nursed him. And there is evidence that either one of these conditions can cause infection. Indeed, I am being treated now for Lyme disease with a co-infection of Bartonella. It's possible he has had this his entire life. Believe it.

The big relief here is that we know what it is. We know also how to treat it. And finally we know Coleman will be a healthy young man again, soon. By soon I don't mean in a month or so. I mean a couple of years. He will still get to go to summer camp, hopefully play football (this remains a little up in the air - it's a highly strenuous sport, and they train hard) and in general be the goofball he is. We just need to keep it simple and mellow.

I'll be rolling out a series of posts about the "new" diet we'll be adhering to. It's an anti-inflammation diet and I've talked about it before: Gluten, dairy and sugar are all out. We've got a long way to get this one down. I, myself did it for years, but that is a trio of foodstuffs Coleman keeps near and dear to his little heart. So far, two days in and we're doing okay on the gluten part. Sugar seems the most challenging. We've used goat cheese which we got an okay from the doctor for.

This is going to be fun! Right?

Friday, April 25, 2014

{this moment}

an occasional friday post by me...inspired by soulemama's friday ritual.

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

::grateful::


 







I am grateful for:

spring flowers
friendship
Kitty
misty walks by the beach
the healing quality of a horseback riding lesson
a quiet moment to write this post


Monday, April 14, 2014

road trip to vegas

Spring break sprang itself on us and I didn't have a plan. I'm not even sure how I came up with the idea to go to Las Vegas. It was a thought, then suddenly it was a phrase whispered into the ear of one of my boys, then it was a plan to see my cousin, then it was a plan to meet up with friends and my brother. It just was. And it was swell.


It was a mellow and lovely visit with Mary Ann, Bill and Michael, and of course Daisy. They were patient and gracious hosts. It's been too long since we saw them last (close to a decade). And though the trip took nine hours it actually made me feel like I have family nearby. I like that. Michael, Mary Ann and Daisy brought us to Redrock Canyon National Conservation area. What a beautiful place to hike around. Next time we visit we'd like to spend an entire day hiking there. The boys were psyched to parkour around the rocks. We briefly hiked around before we set back for a dinner with friends and Chuck in town.



Before we hit the road to go home we went to the famous Gold & Silver Pawn. There was a line to get in. Crazy, right? It was not nearly as big as I thought it was going to be, but they had some pretty cool stuff in there. If you look carefully at the building in the distance that looks a little like the Seattle Space Needle, you are looking at the Stratosphere Hotel and Casino, and you can jump off the top of it if you want (attached to a bungee cord). Or ride up the needle part at 45mph then plummet down. Or dangle over the edge on a mechanical spinning thingy. I tried to talk the kids into a ride, but they weren't having it. Had they said yes, I'm not sure how I would have pulled it off. Maybe next time.

Friday, April 11, 2014