Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Bean Hollow


And...We're back! I'm grateful to have a new camera, almost exactly like my dearly departed Panasonic Lumix. Strangely it was less expensive to get the newest version of the old camera, so I went for it. There are two big differences I noticed right away, it is a 16x zoom up from my 12x zoom and the macro setting now allows you to zoom. I'm sure there will be other new/improved features I'll notice as I play with it. What's that? You're wondering why I don't read the manual, aren't you? That's just not how I roll. I got my new digital baby in the mail last week - but I was out of practice and kept forgetting to bring it with me on our outings. Only a few weeks without it and the routine was lost to me. I remembered it today, however. We went to Bean Hollow, up the coast by about 40 minutes. This used to be our favorite beach, before we lived on this side of The Hill. Now we can walk to Capitola in less time than driving to Bean Hollow....But it is still my favorite beach, and it was nice to be reminded. The day was rather gray up there, and a mere 60 degrees. 

While there the boys explored the amazingly abundant tidal pools and I snapped pictures galore, Kitty ran about and we all had a good look at a beached whale - beached last October. I could smell it when we arrived (though I had forgotten, lo those months ago reading about it) and was thankful we spent our playtime upwind of it. There is a substantial amount of it remaining, but it was hardly recognizable. You can check a picture down below of a couple vertebrae, they were as thick as my body. 

After Bean Hollow we made a pit stop at Swanson Berry Farm, Max just had to have a chocolate covered strawberry. Such a cool place.

Enjoy the pictures...

Whale carcass.





 
Narcissus, er Coleman. He's not looking at himself, but the crabs in that little pool.








Friday, July 8, 2011

{this moment}

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing  a moment from the week. A simple,  special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. 
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Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Independence Day Weekend



The Unanimous Declaration of the Thirteen united States of America


When, in the course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the laws of nature and of nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.


We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. That to secure these rights, governments are instituted among men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed. That whenever any form of government becomes destructive to these ends, it is the right of the people to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their safety and happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shown that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such government, and to provide new guards for their future security. --Such has been the patient sufferance of these colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former systems of government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over these states. To prove this, let facts be submitted to a candid world.


He has refused his assent to laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his governors to pass laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of representation in the legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.



He has dissolved representative houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the legislative powers, incapable of annihilation, have returned to the people at large for their exercise; the state remaining in the meantime exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavored to prevent the population of these states; for that purpose obstructing the laws for naturalization of foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migration hither, and raising the conditions of new appropriations of lands.
He has obstructed the administration of justice, by refusing his assent to laws for establishing judiciary powers.
He has made judges dependent on his will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of new offices, and sent hither swarms of officers to harass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, standing armies without the consent of our legislature.


He has affected to render the military independent of and superior to civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his assent to their acts of pretended legislation:
For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by mock trial, from punishment for any murders which they should commit on the inhabitants of these states:
For cutting off our trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing taxes on us without our consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of trial by jury:
For transporting us beyond seas to be tried for pretended offenses:
For abolishing the free system of English laws in a neighboring province, establishing therein an arbitrary government, and enlarging its boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule in these colonies:
For taking away our charters, abolishing our most valuable laws, and altering fundamentally the forms of our governments:


For suspending our own legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated government here, by declaring us out of his protection and waging war against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our coasts, burned our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large armies of foreign mercenaries to complete the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of cruelty and perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow citizens taken captive on the high seas to bear arms against their country, to become the executioners of their friends and brethren, or to fall themselves by their hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavored to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian savages, whose known rule of warfare, is undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.




In every stage of these oppressions we have petitioned for redress in the most humble terms: our repeated petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.
Nor have we been wanting in attention to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, enemies in war, in peace friends.
We, therefore, the representatives of the United States of America, in General Congress, assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the name, and by the authority of the good people of these colonies, solemnly publish and declare, that these united colonies are, and of right ought to be free and independent states; that they are absolved from all allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the state of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as free and independent states, they have full power to levy war, conclude peace, contract alliances, establish commerce, and to do all other acts and things which independent states may of right do. And for the support of this declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes and our sacred honor.


New Hampshire: Josiah Bartlett, William Whipple, Matthew Thornton
Massachusetts: John Hancock, Samual Adams, John Adams, Robert Treat Paine, Elbridge Gerry
Rhode Island: Stephen Hopkins, William Ellery
Connecticut: Roger Sherman, Samuel Huntington, William Williams, Oliver Wolcott
New York: William Floyd, Philip Livingston, Francis Lewis, Lewis Morris
New Jersey: Richard Stockton, John Witherspoon, Francis Hopkinson, John Hart, Abraham Clark
Pennsylvania: Robert Morris, Benjamin Rush, Benjamin Franklin, John Morton, George Clymer, James Smith, George Taylor, James Wilson, George Ross
Delaware: Caesar Rodney, George Read, Thomas McKean
Maryland: Samuel Chase, William Paca, Thomas Stone, Charles Carroll of Carrollton
Virginia: George Wythe, Richard Henry Lee, Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Harrison, Thomas Nelson, Jr., Francis Lightfoot Lee, Carter Braxton
North Carolina: William Hooper, Joseph Hewes, John Penn
South Carolina: Edward Rutledge, Thomas Heyward, Jr., Thomas Lynch, Jr., Arthur Middleton
Georgia: Button Gwinnett, Lyman Hall, George Walton
Source: The Pennsylvania Packet, July 8, 1776

Friday, July 1, 2011

{this moment}

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Thursday, June 30, 2011

Recharge




Me time is so necessary for me to be a better parent and partner. A better person in general, actually. I am a solitary person overall. Don't get me wrong, I love visiting with friends and family, socializing in small groups I love, too. I really do, it makes me feel warm and fuzzy, even. Ah, but time alone, I cherish it so. Especially since, over the past nearly ten years I've had precious little. That's a long time. Little bits of me-time over this decade have been refreshing - and it's taken me that long to realize I need them more regularly and scheduled. The schedule is not just for my sake, but so that everyone in the family knows I have a night off and I won't be available, I won't even be home, most likely. When the weather was rainy I was going to the zen center to meditate on Wednesday nights. It was lovely. That didn't last because my neck injury fired up again and made sitting still that long on a meditation cushion more than a little difficult. And the pain lasted the whole week. Poof! There went that. Luckily for me the weather has turned and the daylight, at least for now lasts well past dinnertime. This past month my Wednesdays have been spent at Medicine Buddha in the woods hiking with Kitty. We both really enjoy it. Last night I was able to sneak away early enough to take a two hour hike! It took me an hour to unwind, and the second hour I spent just being. You can see some of the moments I took pause to observe with a few photo ops. 





I highly recommend a walk in the woods, alone to anyone who is feeling too full of other peoples energy. Going grocery shopping, clothing shopping, I argue any shopping does not qualify for me-time. Skip the stores and go to the woods, or the beach, or the mountains. Breath deeply. Let go. Smile. I feel better already, don't you?

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Kitty Nap

This is usually where you will find Kitty in the morning, after she and I wake up and put the coffee on, I open the door to the boy's room and she hops up and plops down practically on top of Coleman and falls asleep again.

Bonfires and S'mores


This past Saturday night we met one of Max's friends at the beach for a bonfire and s'mores - we love doing this with our friends!. You can see from the pictures, (taken with my trusty iPhone), we had fun. How can you go wrong with the beach and chocolate? Summer is too much fun. Coleman was with us for the first part, and then Chris came and collected him along with Kitty who was not getting along with our friend's dog. (She's usually so sweet, I forget sometimes she has a mean streak.) It was a pleasant night, just Max and I with some friends, the beach, a fire and s'mores. While we were there we saw people we knew drive by and also saw other folks on the beach. It made me feel like we really are residents here, it's a small community but we're just starting to know enough people that we bump into them in random places. Fun.




Monday, June 27, 2011

Weekday Mornings

Karate kids, Gery and Coleman with Max inside the Ugly Mug.


Three mornings per week Coleman goes to a Karate class. Before summer arrived, he had no problem motivating himself to get there. He was usually rested and eager to go to karate. We had a routine, one that got established over the course of three full months. Things changed a bit when summer arrived; Max isn't already at school when it's time to go, bedtime got way later, there are more kids in the dojo than during the school year, the class Coleman attends takes place in a different, smaller studio. Together all of these things interrupted our routine significantly enough that it became more difficult to motivate himself to get there. We may be over the challenge, we may not be. Coleman does notice a difference in the way he feels when he goes to class, even if I have to remind him of it in the morning. For me, I now get a chance to spend an entire hour with Max reading or chatting together. He has not gotten enough one on one attention since Coleman left school, and I am grateful I have this built in time with him.

Pausing to observe these changes, taking notice of the adjustments that are forced on each of us, makes me realize what creatures of habit we each are. This reinforces my drive to get more, dare I say, "structured" in my approach to our daily schedule. Ew, I said it. Structure, that missing component from our days, weeks, lives. You may notice I've tried to offset that with our weekday events. It has helped, and by posting a schedule and sharing it with the boys I'm obliged to follow through. Hopefully our routines will become more routine. One day.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Field Trip Friday! Monterey Bay Aquarium



Wow, what a week! I'm simply whipped out. We did so many things, hiking, biking, swimming, travel, karate, planning, a bit of work for me, bread baking, catapult building. Phew. We finished it off with a trip to our favorite aquarium in Monterey. There is something magical about the kelp forest there, it is simply mesmerizing. Our pal Aaron knew just where he wanted to go and lead us from exhibit to exhibit. Everyone stuck together and looked out for one another, which is so lovely to watch.



We also walked around the town a bit, taking in the scenes. We even walked into a fine art gallery - I held my breath, except when I reminded everyone not to touch anything. They did a great job in there. We observed a street artist using spray paint on poster board, with some very interesting results. Coleman and Max purchased jointly their first piece of art for $10.



This week I have tried to dedicated myself to being as present as possible with my boys. I'm trying not to think about all the things I left undone at home. Like the enormous pile of laundry on my bed. The mess from breakfast - yesterday's breakfast. Whatever pulls me away from NOW I am trying to shove to the side of my brain that doesn't get used much :). By being present I've noticed how the world seems to them all shinny and new and fascinating and wonderful. They can find such joy in a feather. A spray paint artist. A dilapidated cement structure. One another. And I find so much joy in them when I am fully and completely with them. It is oddly calming to let go all that other s*it and be fully ensconced in the chaos of watching my boys being six and nine and discovering the world. What a great job I have, to spend time with them and discover the world anew, through their eyes.

Nestled into a rocky beach the boys discovered a ruin, likely a sardine factory building or some structure related to the fishing industry, which flourished in the early half of the 20th century in Monterey. Much better than a jungle gym at any playground, they spent some quality time on it practicing their daring and balance. Looking at the photographs, I suspect some of you will wonder why on earth I'd let them climb those things, it looks dangerous. It was fun for them and fun to watch. I somehow watched all four of them at the same time - they mostly stuck together, but trust me, I was planning at any given moment how I would get to them if they fell. They always amaze me with their acrobatic feats and fearlessness. I'm also pleased when I see one of them decide they don't want to do it and back down, go back or do some other thing. It means to me they know their own limits at that time, and that is a good sign to me. Learning your limits while testing them, it's what growing up is all about.











Sadly, I have to report while we were in Monterey, I fell and broke my camera - my very favorite camera ever. My Panasonic Lumix. I fell and smashed the thing on the rocks whilst getting great shots of the boys and their friends. It was a glorified point and shoot, but I love the pictures I was able to take with it. The second week of summer and I'm without a camera! I will put it on my list of things to save up for. In the mean-time, thank goodness for my iPhone.

Catapults, Ducks and Kitty Walks

This Thursday we decided to experiment with making catapults. My vision was to make one sort and then take the things we learned from that and make more and tweak them to be more powerful, etc, etc. Well, that was a lovely vision. But the reality was that everyone wanted to go back to the Garden of Eden and swim. So, I abandoned the idea of making more and better catapults and we just packed the little ones we made with us for the trip to the river. Before we left we put together a little stick raft to play with while we were there. This was also a great idea that didn't fully get realized, because we ended up forgetting it in the car! Oh well, there is only the rest of the summer to play with boat building. Which is not as long as it sounds, at some point someone totally shorted us on summer vacation - we get just ten weeks. But wait! As a homeschooling family, I guess we get to start when it's right for us. Max, though is in a "real" school and will be starting back at the end of August. Oh my gosh, I actually have to start making lesson plans and . . . I'm going off on a tangent, aren't I?



Our duck pals were at The Garden of Eden when we got there, paddling around the river. Max got to know them a little better and they got very close to him, which he absolutely loved. Max loves animals as much as Coleman does guns. His eyes light up when he talks about them, he loves to "study" them at school. He just loves animals. He plans to be a paleontologist, I can also see him as a herpetologist or someone who studies living animals, like our favorite television personality, Jeff Corwin. Then again, he's six, things change...there's time for him to love many things.

Max made a boat with a fallen leaf and the feather of a fallen bird.


We took Kitty for a walk in the woods at Tara Redwood this Friday. It's a walk I regularly go on with Kitty that I just can't interest the boys in. But this day they gladly came with me because it was part of our list of things to do in order to do our Friday Field Trip. (Hm, note to self: "put it on a list".) Of course they had a really great time, as they always do once they get there (well, there was that one time...). These are Max's woods, he hikes in them every week with his teachers and classmates. He knows them. I can see how comfortable he is when he is here and it makes me wish his school went up to sixth grade, or even fifth. I love these woods too and feel more and more comfortable in them each time I come here. I have been hiking on Wednesdays in these woods instead of going to meditation since summer started. It's still meditation of a sort and I get to bring my dog with me.